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The Vision
Posted by: | CommentsOur Starting Place
Our starting place is our ‘purpose statement’, which is as follows:
“The purpose of Rochford Community Church is to love and serve God, one another and the community:
We love and serve God through worship and building relationship with the Lord.
We love and serve one another through caring fellowship and encouraging spiritual growth.
We love and serve the community by demonstrating God’s love and leading people to Christ.”
What we intend to do is brainstorm ideas of how we can go about fulfilling this statement above.
The Art of Spiritual Brainstorming
The following is what we intend doing: Between now and your group meeting, please will you pray for the Lord to open our hearts and minds to catch His heart for our future. At your group meeting we will pray together for God’s guidance. Then we will brainstorm ideas of things we might do or become in the days ahead – these are whatever comes to mind, however apparently crazy they may appear; everything is valid. We will write down EVERYTHING that is called out to be processed on Sunday.
Focusing the Vision
This Sunday our morning Service will be a Pick ’n Mix style, part of which will be for us all to process the results of the groups. We will have produced a master list of what all the groups have said, (the teens have already done theirs), and after we have prayed we will each quietly read those lists and ring things we feel especially stand out. Then in our small group we will share what we feel are the key things that stand out in the process. These things we will collect together and they become the focus of the further deliberations of the Leadership Team.
Please, please if you are able to make the house groups and Sunday morning do. This is an exciting time in the life of Rochford Community Church as we seek the future vision for the church.
You say…God says…
Posted by: | CommentsLast Thursday at one of the house groups we spent some time looking at Promises of God. But specifically on how we look at ourselves differently to the way God sees us. I don’t know about you but some days I find it so much easier to see the bad stuff in my life than the good. I remember doing an exercise a few years back where I was asked to write all the negative things I thought about myself followed by all of the positive things. It was so much easier to think of the negative rather than the positive. Having now revisited this list again I can see that it is a really good check list to remind me of the things God says to my negativity.
I hope it will encourage you:
You say: ‘It’s impossible’
God says: All things are possible
(Luke 18:27)
You say: ‘I’m too tired’
God says: I will give you rest
(Matthew 11:28-30)
You say: ‘Nobody really loves me’
God says: I love you
(John 3:16 & John 3:34 )
You say: ‘I can’t go on’
God says: My grace is sufficient
(II Corinthians 12:9 & Psalm 91:15)
You say: ‘I can’t figure things out’
God says: I will direct your steps
(Proverbs 3:5- 6)
You say: ‘I can’t do it’
God says: You can do all things
(Philippians 4:13)
You say: ‘I’m not able’
God says: I am able
(II Corinthians 9:8)
You say: ‘It’s not worth it’
God says: It will be worth it
(Romans 8:28 )
You say: ‘I can’t forgive myself’
God says: I Forgive you
(I John 1:9 & Romans 8:1)
You say: ‘I can’t manage’
God says: I will supply all your needs
(Philippians 4:19)
You say: ‘I’m afraid’
God says: I have not given you a spirit of fear
(II Timothy 1:7)
You say: ‘I’m always worried and frustrated’
God says: Cast all your cares on ME
(I Peter 5:7)
You say: ‘I’m not smart enough’
God says: I give you wisdom
(I Corinthians 1:30)
You say: ‘I feel all alone’
God says: I will never leave you or forsake you
(Hebrews 13:5)
Thanks Liz and Geoff for the tip off on this one. Really helpful.
Faithworks Ellection Interviews
Posted by: | CommentsA week or so ago Dave showed this video. Gordon Brown, David Cameron and Nick Clegg have told Steve Chalke and Faithworks about their plans for seeing faith groups take a more active role in the public arena in a series of exclusive interviews. If you wanted to watch I thought I would post it up for you.
The country needs solutions
The general election has opened the door for churches
We are called for such a time as this…
Are we ready?
Giving, Tithing: a right perspective
Posted by: | CommentsRecently in RCC we have looked at the whole subject of tithing. Tony has put together a study to help look at this whole subject and I think it is well worth a look. (Not just because he is my Father-in-Law, honest!)
Here is a small section from the introduction:
The fact that you are here suggests you want to be a giver – a faith giver. If you work through this page and DO the things it suggests, you are about to start out on a great adventure of giving.
The thing about giving is that it isn’t a one-off thing; it is a lifestyle approach to the Christian life. On the other pages you’ll see Bible references that show us that God wants to lead us into the adventure of becoming a giver, and it blesses Him!
What we want to do here is provide an approach for those who feel they would like to become a regular giver but don’t feel they have the faith to achieve it. You’ve perhaps seen the teaching about giving but you are uncertain about your ability to do it!
If you’re interested in reading more why not check it out here.
weak is strong
Posted by: | CommentsA very good friend of mine, Jon Birch, is a cartoonist and runs a blog. This was his post today. The phrase Weak is strong really hit me today.

Good Friday Meditation
Posted by: | CommentsIt is said that Jesus entered into everything we experience as human beings. Around the world the sinfulness of human beings is expressed in violence, torture and suffering. In many places there are people who are imprisoned and tortured simply because of their religious beliefs.
On this Friday about two thousand years ago, God shared their pain. The disciples deserted him, the crowd surrendered him, and the most disciplined and violent fighting force the world has known took him. He was utterly helpless at their hands.
The Son chose the path of helplessness. All the power and authority that he had exercised in the previous three years, to raise the dead, cast out demons, heal the sick, calm storms and feed the crowds, all this was put aside.
These soldiers who had become hardened by war and by being executioners, stripped him naked, thrashed him, made a crown of long thorns and pressed it on his head and then beat him about the head many times until blood would have poured down his face in torrents.
His head and his back were shredded. His head, having been beaten, was bruised and gashed and his mind numbed. The first thing torturers do is humiliate and weaken.
The Son has been separated from his followers and rendered physically incapable and mentally incapable of any resistance. He is utterly helpless and weak. They can do to him what they want.
So they take him and nail him with long nails to a large wooden Cross and drop it harshly into a hole in the ground so he will hang there and die – slowly! This is the epitome of helplessness.
When you have been a star, it must be so much worse when you are cast out by your adoring public. The Son had received the amazement of his disciples and the thankfulness of so many whose lives had been utterly transformed – the blind, the deaf, the mutes, the lame, the lepers, and those who had just been ill. There had also been those whose loved ones had been returned to them from the jaws of death. Around the country were thousands who owed this man their grateful allegiance. But these are mostly little people, and on this morning they hold back, cower in corners, or hide away as the might of the religious establishment comes to the fore and with proud disdain quells every possible resistance.
This is the time of powerful men, but the most powerful of all puts his power aside and appears the most vulnerable and weakest of all. The court is convened, the conviction confirmed – in their minds at least – and the crucifixion carried out.
Now he hangs there, alone, rejected, with his life ebbing away. Now the saviour is scorned. Passers by, the doubters of this world, drawn by morbid curiosity, see only a broken body. Their guilt for not having responded to him is assuaged, and they mock him, as if to say, “See, I was right not to follow you! Hey you, come on down if you can!”
The religious elite come to gaze on their work and sneer, “So, where are all his fine words now? Where is his bravado, making himself out to be the Holy One? Didn’t we say he was a fraud?”
And the object of their scorn, the King of Glory, hangs there in awfu, broken agony and is silent before his mockers.
To the observers at the foot of the Cross, there is just a dying man, but in the spiritual realm there is a battle going on, the outcome of which will determine the fate of the world.
A darkness comes over the land for three hours, the natural portraying what was happening in the spiritual reality.
Jesus is carrying the sins of the world as he hangs there on the Cross. Imagine every individual sin as a little bit of blackness, and then imagine every sin that has ever committed in the entire history of the world coming on Jesus in that three hours. In that time, he was enveloped in the most horrible blackness imaginable. The perfect, spotless lamb is covered with, is saturated with, becomes one with, every wrong thing ever done on the earth.
Psalm 22 pictures the demon hoards who gathered to mock and vilify him.
In the law of Moses, is the picture of a lamb without spot or blemish being sacrificed to take away sin. Jesus has to remain perfect throughout this ordeal. If he had been anything like us, it’s fairly certain that at this point of his human experience, he would be raining down curses on mankind, curses on every being in sight, who ultimately brought him to this place. If he were like Job he would curse the day of his birth, and perhaps even his mother for bringing him into this world. Yet he has to remain true to the love of the Father for mankind.
‘Satan’ means ‘accuser’ and the prophetic picture is of him plus his demonic powers of darkness surrounding Jesus like a black mass, accusing him, reviling him, cursing him for every sin of the world that he now carries. Perhaps the truth has never been characterised better than in C.S.Lewis’s “The Lion, the Witch and the Wardrobe” as the Lion, Aslan, portraying Jesus, is tied up on the stone table to be murdered by the Witch:
“Everyone was at him now. Those who had been afraid to come near him even after he was bound began to find their courage, and for a few minutes the two girls could not even see him – so thickly was he surrounded by the whole crowd of creatures kicking him, hitting him, spitting on him, jeering at him.”
Here is the battle of the universe. The all-glorious Son of God hangs in human agony, in the darkness of sin and, in the midst of the demonic blackness, where every one and everything screams at him to cast it all off, to take his rightful place as God and curse these stupid, puny and sinful human beings. Curse them, destroy them, end this stupidity now! Let them die in hell! Give them what they deserve! End them! Start the world again with a new form of being that will automatically worship you!
It is coming to an end. He has carried the sin of the world, he has resisted the hoards of hell and remained the sinless Son of God. The Lamb that is about to die, who is carrying our sin, is still spotless in himself. Yet the cost is almost beyond comprehension.
Throughout time the perfect, all-glorious, Son of God had lived in total and perfect harmony with the Father. Then the Son had left the courts of heaven and had lived for thirty or so earth years in a human body, linked to the Father only by the Spirit.
Now, for three earth hours that seemed to go on for eternity – and perhaps out of time they do – he is enveloped by the blackness of Sin, surrounded and screamed at by the darkness of demons.
In the hearts of both Father and Son must be the most awful anguish and sense of isolation. Never has the Godhead experienced such a thing.
When someone or some thing is ‘crushed’ it is pressed out of all shape. It is as if Jesus, who had been so strong in spirit, was totally crushed, his spirit so distorted, with the result that even his awareness of his Father (which is what the spirit in us does) was devastated. All Jesus was aware of was the blackness and the evil. At that point his awareness of the Father’s presence (which was still there) seemed denied to him, so that he cries out, “My God, why have you forsaken me?”
At that point in history, for that second, it seems like Father and Son are utterly separated.
They say that hell is the absence of God and so, for that moment, Jesus experienced hell on earth, hell in his human spirit. The work is complete and so the life is let go, and the Son dies.
And here is a mystery. The earliest of the Creeds states so blandly of Jesus, that he was “ crucified, died, and was buried. He descended into hell.” Did he, for a time that stretched into three earth days, exist in hell, taking our sin to the place of ultimate punishment? Herein we find yet a further separation of Father and Son, as they deal with our guilt and our shame, so that we might be freed.
And so, as the minutes and hours stretched by, it must have seemed for the devastated disciples, that the most glorious period of the world’s history had come to an end. All hope has been buried.
Taken from sister site read bible alive. Click here for more meditations and bible studies.
Like little children
Posted by: | CommentsThis last Sunday I had what can only be described as a moment where my heart melted. (If you know me, you’ll know that this doesn’t on a regular basis). During Children’s Church, where were were singing, dancing, doing actions to songs and being generally crazy whilst praising God one of our young lads came and said he had been feeling poorly. (In this group the age range was from 3 years up to about 10). I asked if he wanted us to pray for him he said yes so I said we would. Let’s not mess about here I thought, prayer works, the lad wants it so let’s do it.
I also thought; well why does it have to be me praying? So I asked if anyone else would like to pray for him. Immediately the youngest 3 year old put her hand up and prayed a simple prayer, asking God to make this boy better. This was then followed by nearly every child in the room. It was a spontaneous moment where children just responded to the need of one of their own! It was a moment where it was obvious that they cared for each other and intended him to know that he was cared for.
Please pray that their sense of belonging, sense of family and that they have the security in Children’s Church to say prayers out loud without fear, continues.
Love that excludes no one
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This Valentines day service is going to be a bit different from normal. We have an activity morning with something for everyone.
For starters
For those who would like time to find out about someone else – and share a little something about themselves – we are starting with a short encounter session. This will be guided at the start and do join in if you can. When we’ve done these in the past everyone who took part said how good they were.
Upstairs and downstairs
In the Pullman Suite, Doug will be guiding a group thinking about showing God’s Love.
Alternatively there will be 4 hands on activities in the Great Eastern Room, where you can do one or all at your own pace, either alone or with people.
Back Together
After this we’ll all come back together for a short time of worship.
Join in / chill out / share
We obviously hope you feel free to join in all that is happening. However, if you’d prefer to sit out and watch and drink coffee until you see what is happening and then join in, that’s fine. If you’d prefer to and either share with someone else or even get someone to pray with you, that’s fine too.
We’ve got a structure but it’s up to you how you want to use it. However it works out we hope you’ll enjoy the morning and go home blessed.
God’s Love in the Old Testament
Posted by: | CommentsWe live in a world where atheists are given public platforms and sound so confident. To the unwary their seeming confidence may almost appear overwhelming. We recently posted a simple comment on the Haiti crisis here. Since then Richard Dawkins has burst into print again denigrating the Christian faith. Because these things undermine the faith of the unwary, Tony has added an Appendix to his recent on-line book, God’s Love in the Old Testament, analysing this latest atheistic outpouring. If you would like to read this rebuttal, please click HERE
A Podcast of our sermon
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Today I have made available, on-line, last Sunday’s preach from Tony. We are in the process of looking at how we run the sound on Sunday mornings and one option open to us is to record the sermon’s digitally. This is a test for us to see if the technology works as well as the delivery of the audio and not forgetting how user friendly it will be.
Ultimately with the system i am trying to provide you will be able to search through bible verses, key words, who the preacher was, and when the preach took place. But before we commit to anything I would be very grateful if you could go to the sermons and have a listen. (or at least try!) Then either on this post or via email or a phone call give me any feed back you think will be helpful to get a good application for you.


